About Ellie

I learned that being loved isn’t the same thing as being chosen — especially by yourself.

My work is rooted in lived experience, deep self-honesty, and the belief that women deserve relationships where they don’t have to shrink. I help clients understand the old adaptations beneath codependency, then practice a new kind of self-loyalty with compassion and clarity.

My coaching philosophy

Direct, warm, and deeply practical. We make room for your history without letting it write the rest of your story.

Ellie Bordiuk — Codependency Coach

You’re allowed to choose yourself.